Sunday Supper in the Suburbs

Sunday supper at the new condo.

Sunday supper at the new condo.

Last Sunday we were invited to dinner with friends who just moved into their new condo after relocating back to Memphis from Virginia. It was such a treat seeing their new home and welcoming them back! Our relaxing Sunday supper started out on the patio with crudites and wine watching Bill master his grill. For me, watching a man grilling in his own space is a thing of beauty. This is how you spend Sunday summer evenings in the South. Their lovely patio is decorated with splashes of red and opens up from double French doors off the dining room.

Judy and Bill's lovely patio at their new condo.

Judy and Bill’s lovely patio at their new condo.

It was quite an elegant menu for a Sunday night. Bill made his famous caesar salad, which would have been a very satisfying meal by itself. In addition, they served steak and veggie kabobs and Judy’s baked onions in foil, which are fabulous! For dessert, it was key lime pie. The table was lovely, and was set with lime green and red fiestaware dressed up with black and lime green place mates in a geometric pattern with black linen napkins. The built in china cabinet in the dining room is a nice touch and displays some of Judy’s red fiestaware.JudysChinaCabinet

After dinner, we took a leisurely stroll through the new neighborhood with a glass of wine. The weather was gorgeous, which is incredible for the first of June in Memphis! We wrapped up the evening watching a rerun of the final episode of
Season 3 of Downton Abbey. What synchronicity given that we saw the original episode together following a dinner party at our house a few months earlier! It was lovely sharing it with them again. My husband and I are voracious Downton Abbey fans and cannot wait for Season 4!!! It was a lovely ending for a lovely Sunday supper in the suburbs. We are so glad to have our dear friends back in Memphis.


Let’s Go to the Races (at Keeneland)!

Keeneland Thoroughbred Race Track in Lexington, KY

Keeneland Thoroughbred Race Track in Lexington, KY

L.V. Harkness Company in Lexington, KY

L.V. Harkness Company in Lexington, KY

With friends at the Thoroughbread Club in Lexington, KY.

With friends at the Thoroughbred Club in Lexington, KY

If you have never visited Keeneland Racetrack in April or October, you have missed a chance to experience elegant entertaining at its best. Keeneland is an icon in Lexington, KY. It’s not just about thoroughbred racing – it’s about a lifestyle and food traditions that span generations. I am fortunate to have relatives and friends who live in Lexington and invite us to visit every year in April and October. Although there are only two meets there annually, an entire lifestyle has developed around the fun, the food and traditions.

Some of my favorite things to do in Lexington are browsing L. V. Harkness, enjoying Saturday afternoon dinner at The Thoroughbred Club, taking in an opera at the Lexington Opera House and ending the evening at Shakespeare’s in Downtown Lexington. When you visit the Thoroughbred Club and dining room, you must dress appropriately. Coat and tie must be worn by gentlemen. A few people find this archaic, but this is precisely the reason so many people flock to the races in Keeneland – to show off their style and “see and be seen.”

We are always welcomed to my cousin’s home with bourbon cocktails and appetizers. I look forward to finding my hostess gift beautifully wrapped and waiting on our arrival artfully displayed on the guest bed. It is always a gift of finest taste related to horse racing. We enjoy a long and lingering exquisitely prepared dinner with fine china and crystal.Then to the great room for after dinner drinks. Our visit last month was no different. We had a fabulous dinner of Ina’s roast chicken with fresh corn and Napoleons for dessert. The china was a delicate Swiss pattern with a gorgeous aqua band trimmed in gold called Langenthal Chateau.

Langenthal Chateau China

Langenthal Chateau China

My cousin recently shared her menu for the Kentucky Derby dinner she prepared, and I thought you would enjoy reading it about too! Most of the recipes are from Ina Garten’s Back to Basic’s Cookbook, which I gave her as a hostess gift during one of our visits.

Mint Juleps with Savory Palmiers
Chilled Cucumber Soup with Shrimp
French Bistro Steaks (Hanger) with Provencal Butter and Confetti Corn
Kentucky Derby Pie
Wine – Carmel Road Pinot Noir

If you enjoy elegant dining, you must visit Lexington and Keeneland in April or October. Experience the beautiful life. Until then, you might want to pick up a copy of Keeneland Entertains, Traditional Bluegrass Hospitality and Favorite Recipes by Fran Taylor. I cherish my copy. Have you been to Keeneland? If so, please share your experience with us.

What Happened to Elegant Dining?

When I was a teenager, I could not wait for The French Chef to come on TV each week with a new episode of cooking french meals. The Kennedys were in the White House with their French chef, and I loved reading about the elegant dinner parties they hosted. During the 60’s we were not worried about cholesterol and how many calories were in each dish. We just enjoyed good food and elegant dining – thanks to Julia! I could not wait until I was old enough to have a home of my own and begin entertaining. I dreamed of the day when I would be old enough to host my own dinner parties.

After graduating from high school, most of my girl friends headed off to college. Not I – I went to Patricia Stevens Finishing School because I wanted to make sure that I was properly trained to be a gracious hostess . . . to walk properly . . to dress correctly. . . and most importantly to use the proper fork with each course at the elegant dinner parties I planned to attend and host.

My first dinner party was for 30 people. I remember sending handwritten invitations by snail mail and people really RSVPed!!  Remember those days? It was an elegant affair and people were seated all over the house. It did not matter that everyone couldn’t fit into the dining room. Each table was elegantly draped with fine linen and the tables were set with my fine china, crystal, and silverware. There were even place cards at each place setting! The menu was composed entirely of french crepes from the appetizers to the dessert. It took weeks to make all those crepes and freeze them so that I could fill them on the day of the dinner party. I made over 150 crepes! I can still remember the wine we served – Lancer’s Rose and Blue Nun. We thought it was fine wine back in the day! What a sense of accomplishment that was hosting my first dinner party!

I then moved to my Annual Cold Duck parties at Christmas time. Everyone at the bank where I worked was invited along with their spouses to kick off the holidays at my home in the country. I purchased enough Christmas china to serve 30 people easily. Imagine – I had not learned of Martha Stewart yet and would not dream of using several china patterns. During the early 70’s, it was very popular to serve a sparkling red wine called “Cold Duck.” It went great with – you guessed it – duck a l’orange. It was quite an elegant affair and everyone was required to dress in their most festive holiday attire.

I long for those days to return. Most of the invitations I receive these days are by text or email and they always say, “Casual Attire.” And wouldn’t it be lovely to watch a chef prepare an elegant dinner party on Food Network or The Cooking Channel? I think we all know how to do casual meals by now. I am so delighted when I receive a formal invitation to a sit down dinner where the hostess actually uses china, crystal, and silver! I long to bring elegant dining back. Let’s talk about cooking, entertaining, hosting elegant events. We will discuss wine and china patterns, and floral arrangements. Let the journey begin!